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What Your Divorce Attorney Isn’t Telling You: The Dark Truth About Time, Money, and Options in New York Divorces
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: October 17, 2025 Divorce isn’t supposed to feel like a horror movie—but for thousands of people in New York, that’s exactly what it becomes. The eerie silence in the courtroom (when it's quiet there), the endless paperwork, the constant feeling that you’ve lost control of your own life—it’s a real-life nightmare that too many people walk into without realizing what’s waiting on the other side. At Divorce Den, we believe people deserve the trut
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Oct 176 min read


Life Is Short: Get the Divorce: Why Leaving a Miserable Marriage Might Be the Healthiest Decision You’ll Ever Make
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: October 16, 2025 Let’s be honest — “’til death do us part” sounded romantic when you were 27, drunk on love (and maybe champagne). But now? You’re exhausted, anxious, and feeling more like your husband’s unpaid therapist or his housekeeper, than his partner. The truth is, life is short. Too short to spend it walking on eggshells, crying in your car, or pretending everything’s fine for the holiday card. And this is not even accounting for the poss
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Oct 166 min read


10 Marriage Red Flags Every Woman Should Spot Before Saying “I Do”
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: August 11, 2025 Marriage can be one of life’s most rewarding experiences — but only if it’s built on a...
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Aug 154 min read


Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships: How It Impacts Divorce and Marriage
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: August 13, 2025 Divorce is rarely caused by a single issue; instead, it’s often the result of ongoing...
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Aug 133 min read


Silent Strategies: How to Emotionally Detach from a Toxic Relationship Without Saying a Word
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: August 8, 2025 Have you ever found yourself asking, "Why do I feel so drained int his relationship—so...
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Aug 85 min read


5 Signs Collaborative Divorce is Right for You: A Guide to Peaceful Divorce
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: July 15, 2025 Is Collaborative Divorce the answer to avoiding a messy court battle? Discover the five key...
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Jul 146 min read


Gray Divorce: Why Over-50 Divorces Are Rising and What's Different
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: July 10, 2025 What would you do? Jill thought she had it all figured out. At 58, her youngest had graduated...
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Jul 117 min read


Divorcing the 'Narcissist': Why Early Awareness Could Save You Years of Emotional Damage
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: June 14, 2025 When we think of divorce, we often picture two people simply growing apart. Or we imagine a...
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Jun 145 min read


No More Courtroom Chaos: How the Divorce Den Blueprint Will Change the Way New Yorkers Get Divorced
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: June 10, 2025 When most people think about divorce, they imagine the way it's portrayed on television;...
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Jun 106 min read


Divorce and Mental Health: Real Struggles Nobody Talks About (And How to Protect Your Peace)
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: May 20, 2025 Going through divorce is hard. As a divorce attorney, I can tell you that for certain. But,...
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May 203 min read


Co-Parenting During the Holidays: How to Put Your Child First After Divorce
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: April 20, 2025 Springtime is here, and so is Easter. And while the season may bring up images of pastel...
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Apr 207 min read


What to Do If You Get Served with Divorce Papers in New York
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: March 21, 2025 Getting served with divorce papers can be an overwhelming and emotional experience. If...
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Mar 216 min read


10 Warning Signs to Avoid When Hiring a Divorce Attorney (Notice the Red Flags and Don’t Get Burned!)
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: March 19, 2025 Choosing the right divorce attorney is absolutely crucial when it comes to navigating the...
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Mar 196 min read


What to Do When You Know You Need to Get Divorced: A Step-by-Step Guide
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: March 11, 2025 Knowing when it's time to get a divorce is one of the most difficult and emotional decisions...
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Mar 117 min read


Weaponized Incompetence and Divorce: Why It’s Important to Understand Its Impact on Relationships
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. February 26, 2025 Divorce is often a complex and multifaceted experience, encompassing emotional, financial, and...
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Feb 267 min read


When Valentine's Day Highlights the Need for a Divorce: Recognizing the Signs
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. February 12, 2025 Valentine’s Day is typically seen as the ultimate celebration of love. It’s a time for couples...
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Feb 125 min read


Black History Month: Highlighting Inspirational Figures Who Overcame Divorce
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: February 12, 2025 As we celebrate Black History Month, it's important to reflect on the stories of...
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Feb 126 min read


Who Cares? Why Human Resources and Management Teams Should Care if Their Employees Are Getting Divorced
By: Elizabeth Vaz, Esq. Date: January 14, 2025 Divorce is one of life’s most stressful and challenging events. Take it from me. I have...
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Jan 146 min read


Choosing the Right Path for Your Divorce in New York; Collaborate and Don’t Litigate
Navigating divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when faced with unfamiliar processes and legal jargon. Many people are unsure how...
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Dec 27, 20243 min read


Breaking the Stigma: Addressing Misconceptions About Divorce in the United States
Break the stigma surrounding divorce and let families be families- no matter what that looks like after divorce.
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Nov 12, 20246 min read
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